I am not a holiday fan.
I know, grinch-ish. Nonetheless, they tend to move people in the opposite direction of their intention. Valentine’s day causes men to believe that the only day they need to buy flowers for their wife is Feb. 14.
“What more do you want from me?”
So Ash Wednesday and Lent birth Mardi Gras and the false asceticism of lent practices. Mardi Gras brings out the worst in human behavior, all before we have to get better for lent. Then we purge for forty days prior to Holy celebrations of Easter only to revert back to “normal” after it is all over.
This is not healthy Christianity.
Here are some of the things we are “giving up” for lent (from Twitter):
Ben & Jerry’s
So the assumption behind the “giving up” for lent is that when it is over we can revert to unhealthy, petty, insignificant, destructive behaviors and restore a “normal” life. Holidays should not discourage us from maturity, but spur us on to “holi”ness. So don’t give up a thing for lent. Instead, add a good habit that will begin in the forty days and stick beyond Easter, and because of Easter, which is a celebration of life. Lent , like all holidays, should be a time of exaggerated living, that is, people trying to increase good behavior. Give more, pray more, love more, help more, make an extra effort at positive holiness.
We demean the celebration by highlighting our negative behavior, appeasing our conscience by refraining from them for a season when they should not be a part of our life or an issue at all. Giving up texting is an unnecessary and trivial exercise. Texting? We use these issues as excuses to ignore the root of the matter. Instead of giving up texting, do what you are supposed to do when you are texting. If you are feeling guilty about texting, is it because it is keeping you from…working??? So get to work. You should probably give up fast food forever, it will kill you early. Why give it up for lent? Why not regard your body with the respect it deserves as a precious gift from God and care for it, all year. Are you seriously going to go back to “negative thinking” after Easter? Stop using holidays as an excuse for mediocre living.
Maybe I am overreacting, but I for one find this cyclical pattern harmful to my overall progress in Christ. Make this Holy Season a time to celebrate Christ in a superior fashion.
Christian growth is attempted in one of two ways: The first attempts the giving up of certain practices. “Stop doing that!” is the mantra of this camp.
The second, and superior way, attempts to add healthy and positive behaviors to life, and like bermuda grass, the strength and tenacity of health chokes out unhealthy and destructive behavior.
The first way only has limited success and results in legalism and arrogance. The second way is rewarding and helps us to get to the goal: Christlikeness.
Ash Wednesday, Lent, Easter, Christmas should reflect ongoing values and behaviors, affirming and celebrating the upward journey. Fix your eyes on Jesus.